February 5, 2007 7:14:39 PM CET
Thank God there is finally a real something where I can talk to gay people like me and gey help : Guys I have a big problem : I know a german guy and we love eachother so much and we want to be together so we thaught about gettin married and there the problems started , I found out he had no job at the embassy,and before that he had made me understand he had that job,anyways the visa for partnership was refused due to the fact that he had no job and then someone told him better to look for someone to sponsor me until he gets the job and we did it and was refused cuz the sponsor as far as i'm concerned and this is what i understood in the refusal letter,should be the person i want to marry !
But last week things have changed and he got a nice job offer and he accepted it and went to the foreigner office where the visas decision for marriage are taken and we thaught things were going to be easy but they told him that he needs to show his job contarct which is not a big deal but also to show his bank draft from his job salary dirictly to his bank account and then he asked them why and they said i need this money when i'm there to live with !!! ! !!!! guys ! i don't want to wait more! i'm sick and tired and need help ! shall he discuts this matter with a lawyer ! i'm sure money in the bank is not a big thing, they are just making a problem and you all know why !!! or maybe shall we find someone else to sponsor me till i get there !!! what shall we do in my case !! please tell me !!!
Thanks a lot