September 13, 2010 6:24:20 PM CEST
Spoke with the bank. Despite the fact we will be earning almost double what we earn here and not even accounting for the fact we would also be receiving rent here, the answer is basically no.
I fully accept that it is part of the mortgage agreement we signed up to. That I don't have a problem with.
But the funny thing is the bank are willing to give up a "guaranteed" revenue stream. (You'll just have to take my word for it being guaranteed.)
When I suggested to them that in the absence of a concrete offer to buy the apartment, they are basically leaving us to choose between renting out the apartment against their mortgage rules or leaving the apartment vacant in a city short of housing, I was offered only silence. You can't force somebody to buy your apartment. You can drop the price so low that the mortgage could not be paid out from the proceeds though, in which case we would just as well jump on a plane and say bye-bye NL and leave them to sort out the mess.

(OK, I wouldn't really do that, but some people do.)
So the risk of being foreclosed upon is not really any worse than the other alternatives we face.
A lesson for other expats in renting being better than buying perhaps? To paraphrase an old chestnut, "only in the Netherlands..."