August 10, 2012 8:58:21 PM CEST
First of all, congratulations!
I happen to be putting together all the necessary things for our first baby too, so I know what you are talking about when you say you don't know what half of the things in the list are. But I am getting there and you will too :-)
The kraampakket, at least as it was explained to us by the lady from the kraamzorg, is not the same as the list with baby items. The kraampakket contains things that the kraamzorg nurse will use to take care of the baby and the mom in the first days at home -special sanitary pads, sterile gauze, etc. I do not know if everything is really used, but I guess we will need a lot of the items.
My insurance does cover the kraamzorgpakket (I just requested it a couple of days ago), but you can buy one at "thuiszorgwinkels en drogisten." The thuiszorgwinkels are a special sort of shop to buy/rent things from crutches to breast milk pumps. Anyway, maybe you know all of this by now.
As for baby items, I don't know how your list is, but mine seems very reasonable. I got a couple of those overdone lists from shops and the like, but the one from the kraamzorg is nothing like them -actually it looks a lot like the one Osita wrote.
Babydump.nl and Babypark.nl (they also have traditional shops across the NL) have a huge selection of all things baby. So far, I find the prices for "big" things quite allright -we have actually bought the baby furniture and the stroller at Babypark. Both shops have nice offers, i.e. free baby car seat with the purchase of a complete stroller. Smaller stuff is more pricey there, I think. I am buying a lot of the items in the Hema (clothes but also blankets, towels, bed linnen, kruiken, etc.) and Ikea has also some good things.
Good luck with everything and I hope I was of some help!