ouloveit3 said:
Wow sorry for your situation ... I remember you from years ago. I think you need a Divorce Lawyer to help answer these detailed 'parent plan' questions though. All the lawyers here are immigration lawyers. Good luck.
i asked a divorce lawyer here on the : ask the experts but sadly nobody replied to my question
thanks for your reply
guess my best solution would be to see my lawyer who dealt with my case and proceed from there