January 12, 2012 1:14:40 PM CET
I am all for checking facts in advance, but I think you are overdoing it. The bottom line is - you need to talk to your boyfriend about not putting his name on the birth certificate and refusing him parental rights and see what he thinks about it - for me it sounds extreme. I have an idea what he will say, but either way, if you are planning to do anything along those lines you will not be able to hide it from him. I think you should decide what you want and then do it, but to be blunt it sounds to me like you don't trust him, so the question is why would you move to his country where you will be completely dependant on him for many things?
By all means, contact a lawyer so you have broader picture of family law, I don't know any though. There are some on this site, maybe you can contact them in "ask the expert" section.